Some of the girls ask if it's ok if they use some of the toys at my clinic and I always allow that as long as they record the private solo session. Lori wanted to ride the Sybian but thought it might be a bit too intense so she used the wand to get herself off. I really like the wand too but I prefer to put a condom over the vibrating end so it slides around better when things get wet. Her workouts are paying off...great abs Lori! :)